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Married in an ungodly environment · Many couples move to live together before they get married. This is called co-habitation. This is not the Christian way. You cannot try out marriage. Marriage should be kept holy and honoured. Both men and women should be virgins until the wedding night. This principle has been well understood in most cultures in the world, but now in the "Western world" this is being forgotten, and other cultures are following the same bad example.

Marriage is part of the creation order. This is why marriage is a shared value in different cultures and religions. Yet humankind is rebelling against the creation work of God. A recent sign of this rebellion is the campaign to have a marriage-like relation legalised for homosexual couples. This is being discussed in the Finnish Parliament right now.

For Christians it is important that you can share your faith with your married partner. The Bible advises that you should not bear an unequal yoke with an unbeliever. Paul warns against getting married with an unbeliever in the hope that your spouse might eventually become a believer. How do you know that this will be the case? But on the other hand Paul teaches, that if you become a believer while married to an unbeliever, this is no basis for a divorce. Keep on loving and being faithful to your spouse. Marriage is a lifelong commitment.


 

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